The wedding planning process includes finding the perfect dress, landing the perfect reception hall, making sure you’ve got the right flowers, food, cake, music, wedding party, DJ, photographer, centerpieces, invitations, ceremony, rings, shoes and more.While there is no doubt that there is value in celebrating such a sacred day, is it possible that in our celebration- sometimes we miss the focus?The good person in you won’t want to hurt them (your opposite-sex friend) or your spouse because neither one deserves to be hurt. These situations can seem complicated, but they are actually quite simple to understand.*Disclaimers* Yes, you can have friends of the opposite sex.Think of it as more of a warning, than a “hammer and judge.” This article is written from a long-distance perspective, with only ONE story to back it.Of course there are other situations that may vary. The heart behind this article is to bring light to a topic rarely talked about, and open the inter-webs for healthy discussion on the matter. While Audrey and I were weathering our long-distance relationship and growing further apart, I was hanging out with this girl almost every day, and we were inevitably growing closer together.The world holds the Christian view of sex in contempt, considering it prudish, naïve and repressive.But the Bible elevates sexuality as God’s gift to us that is both sacred and mysterious.
She went on about how she was sexually abused and abused by him and then she remarried someone else and he sexually abused her daughter. I told my husband to be careful because she was giving too much intimate information and she could be trying to suck him into her life.My husband, feeling very secure in our loving wonderful marriage of 12 years said I was right and he would be careful.Well, unknown to me the conversations kept going and going.No, I am not saying this is the say all end all on the debate.This article is about why and how they CAN ruin your marriage.My husband says he thought he was helping her by listening.