), I was asked to be the “Guest Professor” at Romance University, an online web-site for writers and others. There was and is quite a spirited discussion going on at RU and if you’d care to read some of it or join in, here’s the link.
But, following is the “course” for your reading pleasure: Today it seems there are so many changes in our home and work lives, that the sexes often are unsure of what their roles are.
Notice that I used the word, “sexes,” rather than gender. Bruce: Well, I don’t see how watching a chick-flick is spending time together.
To me, “gender” sounds like academics and reeks way too much of the PC police. Like in “Black and White,” “Ying and Yang,” “Laurel and Hardy,” and “A Burger and Fries.” Okay, maybe some of those analogies are a bit silly, but the point is that men are men and women are women. You drool over the clothes and I end up falling asleep. Anyway, we’re getting you some new clothes and I’m getting those knee-high boots I showed you.
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