If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.
If you read the comic strip "Peanuts," you probably know about the little red-haired girl. Charlie Brown worships her from a distance -- a long distance.
The few times he gets up the nerve to approach her, something gets in the way and messes things up. A lot of guys can sympathize, some more than others.
In other words, ask yourself "Am I attracted in spite of or because of his shyness? A very close friend of mine is extremely shy, and I know plenty of other guys that are shy. Shy guys, almost by definition, do not have the balls to initiate and pursue women.
" If you answer these questions sincerely and still want to date him, you then face the problem of making it happen - or rather, making him make it happen. They fall outside of the predator-prey model for sexual interactions that is assumed in the "don't initiate contact" rule.
This is true, but handling this situation isn't as simple as you might think...
The first thing to do when you find yourself attracted to a shy man is to question your feelings for him.
All you have to do is talk about why you like a particular hobby, how you got into it in the first place, and in what capacity you’re pursuing it, amidst your busy schedule.
With more than 124 million single-Americans, half of them men, there are a lot of great guys out there…
The problem is that some of the best are just too shy to introduce themselves.
And some guys are so shy, they find it difficult to even make eye contact with a person of the opposite gender, let alone court her!
But, this shyness need not put a damper on your aspirations to court a lady.