Committing your heart to someone is a huge decision.
“If you offer to cover the bill, you’re either giving the message that you’re a nice person, or it can be taken as a sign of interest in the other person.”If you offer to split the bill you could be signaling that you’re not interested in pursuing the relationship.
It's also the perfect way to gauge whether her level of passion is compatible with yours, Jones says. Each of these explanations reveals something about her character.
"This is a great query because a dream job merges meaning, passion, and lifestyle," Jones explains. If things get a bit awkward or serious, divert to a more carefree topic.
If there's one thing that can ruin a first date and ensure a woman's first impression of you is a bad one, it's crappy conversation.
You need ice breakers, light-hearted queries, questions that provoke banter, laughter, and thought, as well as questions that dig a bit deeper and go beyond the superficial. If she hates planes, road trips, or has no desire to leave her hometown ever, that's a good indicator of her ambitions and desires (or lackthereof).